Hello. I’m so sorry for your recent news of your love one. It hurts deeply. I feel your pain.
Hearing the diagnosed news of your love one is not easy. There’s a moment where you are in disbelief and even feeling a hint of denial. I remember sitting in the doctor’s office shocked and heartbroken. I can barely explain to you how I suddenly felt like my father’s life just stopped. It was cut short. Like his ability to be a full human was robbed. But don’t let this discourage you. Along my journey, I slowly realized that my dad’s soul was still there! You have not lost your loved one. My whole perspective changed, so my approach toward Alzheimer’s changed. In the beginning stages I focused on safety and his independence. I was very careful with his dignity. The later stages I made sure his emotions and daily self-care needs were met. But before we can do this properly, we need to know our next steps. Knowing these steps will avoid some heartache. I know this can be very overwhelming but– You can do this.
Here’s a precious glimpse of my dad. (Already in his 6th year with Alzheimer’s) He’s there! I can see him.
Ok, so what is the Next Move? Go here: Diagnosed
